We
all belong to various communities or groups - our immediate family,
our extended family, our jobs, our local and regional communities,
our country of origin and/or residence, to name but a few. How harmoniously
we relate to the other members of these communities or groups is important
not only to us as individuals but to the world.
For a group to function at its highest potential, its members should
respect each other, be open to the opinions and beliefs of others,
be good listeners as well as good communicators. More now than ever,
we need to embody these qualities in our interaction with our families,
neighbours, co-workers and other groups. By creating an environment
of harmony, tolerance and cooperation at the most basic levels of
our everyday lives, we set the stage for this energy to expand to
the whole of humanity, to Man’s relation to his fellow Man as
well as his relation to the Planet.
When
we talk of group work, it is not only in the formal sense. Group work
takes place anytime we get together with another person, sit down
to dinner with our family or discuss the week’s work with a
colleague. In all situations we are seeking harmony, mutual respect
and cooperation. By embodying these qualities in all of our relationships
we are setting an example that hopefully will be reflected back to
us by the people we interact with. Here
are some essences that can help us to achieve these goals.
Harvest Lily
(Pacific) is an essence of expansion and awakening that supports group
energy by helping us see another’s point of view. It moves us
beyond ego boundaries so that we begin to appreciate that although
we are different we are also the same.Freshwater Mangrove
(Australian Bush) helps release us from expectations or prejudices
which we have been taught, but have not personally experienced. This
makes us more open to new experiences, people and perceptual shifts;
as well as a healthy questioning of traditional standards and beliefs.
Slender Rice Flower
(Australian Bush) assists group harmony and conflict resolution when
individual egos get in the way. It instils humility and open-mindedness
that allows for greater co-operation between people for the common
good. It has the ability to make an individual aware of the common
divinity in all people. Scilla
(South African) is another essence that enables us to integrate our
personal needs with those of the whole, creating overall harmony and
facilitating our collaboration with others for the common good.
Participating
fully in a group, whether it be in our family or at work, is not always
easy. Indian Pipe
(Pacific) gives us the ability to “stand alone in closeness”,
so that we can fully participate in the group while maintaining and
expressing our own unique qualities of Being. Raccoon
(Wild Earth Animal) helps us to move between our various roles (wife,
mother, sister, employee, citizen etc) with gentleness and ease.
Wedding Bush
(Australian Bush) is for people who have difficulty committing themselves
to relationships, whether they be personal, social or business.Prairie Dog
(Wild Earth Animal) helps those who are reticent to get involved by
encouraging connecting and networking with others, sociability, communal
involvement and participation.
People
who are particularly sensitive to the energy of others will benefit
from taking a protection essence such as Guardian
(Alaskan combination), Auric Protection Essence
(South African combination), Protection
(Wild Earth Animal combination) or Golden Armor
(Green Hope Farm combination). This will enable them to participate
in a calm and focussed manner without being destabilised by the other
energies in the group.
Silver Birch
(Pacific) helps eliminate power struggles. When we do not need to
control the whole show it is easier to reach agreement. Crassula
(South African) is for whose who do not accept any opposition or other
point of view. It softens, moderates, and brings gentleness, flexibility
and an ability to surrender where appropriate. Lis Martagon
(DEVA) is recommended for people who are aggressive or authoritarian.
It helps group work and the search for collective solutions by developing
the qualities of co-operation, solidarity and the ability to listen
to others. Banana
(Master’s) instils humility, helps us step back to see the broader
perspective and relieves us of the need to have the last word.
Molène
(DEVA) and Chinkerinchee
(South African) are both essences that can help the members of a group
or community to develop a moral code of conduct and values. They encourage
awareness of our inner voice and conscience that results in unity
and group harmony. Yellowwood
(South African) allows the emergence of the positive qualities of
leadership: focus and enthusiasm, the ability to inspire others, the
willingness to take responsibility.
Communication
is an important part of ensuring that a group or family functions
for the benefit of all concerned. Twinflower
(Alaskan) is indicated when we are defensive or reactive towards others
and have difficulty understanding what they are saying. It helps us
learn to listen and speak to others from a place of inner calm and
focused neutrality. When we are unable to express anger in a clear
and nonviolent way, it is difficult to resolve conflicts, especially
in group situations. Blue Elf Viola
(Alaskan) helps us to diffuse the energy surrounding emotionally charged
issues and clear the air for a graceful resolution of the situation.
Turquoise
(Crystal Energy) and Lamb's Quarters
(Alaskan) are two essences that balance the energies of the heart
and the mind to promote communication that harmonises the rational
and intuitive aspects of our Being. This opens the way for better
relations among all the members of the group.
Wondering where to begin? Start with yourself. Select the essences
that speak to you. Take them for three weeks and see if your experiences
have changed. If people around you are open to the idea, you might
ask everyone to choose the essences they feel most drawn to and take
them for several weeks before the meeting (or dinner party or family
gathering). You could also make a combination essence for the group
as a whole.
Space clearing essences such as Espace
Spray
(Terre & Cosmos), Space Clearing Mist
(Australian Bush) or Clear Sky
(Fleurs de Vie) can also contribute to harmonious family gatherings
or work meetings. You will be surprised how much cooperation and good
will can be generated simply by clearing the energy in your home or
office.